No two friends are the same. Each has his or her own gift for us. When we expect one friend to have all we need, we will always be hypercritical, never completely happy with what he or she does have.
One friend may offer us affection, another may stimulate our minds, another may strengthen our souls. The more able we are to receive the different gifts our friends have to give us, the more able we will be to offer our own unique but limited gifts. Thus, friendships create a beautiful tapestry of love.
For further reflection...
"Gold leaf was hammered out and cut into threads to work into the blue, purple, and crimson yarns and into the fine twisted linen, in skilled design." - Exodus 39: 3 (NRSV)
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What are some of the different gifts that your friends give to you? Comment on this Daily Meditation.
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We need friends. Friends guide us, care for us, confront us in love, console us in times of pain. Although we speak of "making friends," friends cannot be made. Friends are free gifts from God. But God gives us the friends we need when we need them if we fully trust in God's love.
Friends cannot replace God. They have limitations and weaknesses like we have. Their love is never faultless, never complete. But in their limitations they can be signposts on our journey towards the unlimited and unconditional love of God. Let's enjoy the friends whom God has sent on our way.
For further reflection...
"... for the Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart." - I Samuel 16: 7 (NRSV)
Your response...
Do you have a friend who helps point you to the unconditional love of God? Can you be that person for someone today? Comment on this Daily Meditation.
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